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Monday 23 November 2015

Lori Welbourne is a psychologist too now and she's attempting to stereotype pit bull owners?

You all remember Lori Welbourne the tits out Canadian blogger that got booted from her publications for publishing a couple of pit bull hater articles well with lots of time on her hands and no where to vent her hate she teamed up with the haters at dogsbut.org and the Df's and created the "National Pit Bull Victim Awareness Day" facebook page and org's using all the same resources just re-packaging them.

Imagine how different things would be if Alexandra Semyonova had a reality show instead of Cesar Millan, Tia Torres and Shorty Rossi.
National Pit Bull Victim Awareness
We’ve seen that the killing bite and unpredictable, uncontrolled aggression are genetically anchored in these dogs, and that they can’t be taught not to execute killing behaviour. They inevitably reach a certain age when they start to do it, looking for opportunities and excuses to do what we have bred them to do. If you’re lucky, the first attack will be on your cat or another dog, and not on your child. This killing behaviour is not caused by the owner in individual cases; it’s just part of what the dog is. However, the killing behaviour is caused by certain people’s consumer behaviour. By buying these dogs, these people are responsible for making it economically profitable to breed for the killing bite and the hair trigger. Are these people all “the wrong kind of owners”?
The answer to this question lies in the kind of person who wants a dog with the killing bite in the first place. So who are they?
Well, in fact, they are the wrong kind of owners. Take a look around you. It’s mostly a group of people who – for some reason related to their personal psychology – specifically want a dog whose breed standard explicitly states that the breed has been selected for extreme aggression. Often these are people with an inferiority complex of some kind. They want something that will finally enable them to intimidate other people. They have an ego problem, and need to prove something to the world. Many are men who are (perhaps unconsciously) worried about their masculinity, that maybe the world won’t see it. Others are adolescents who watch too much MTV and learn that an aggressive dog is an essential consumer item, just like the Nikes, if he wants to keep up his macho hip-hop or skater’s image. Sometimes they are naïve people, who think all dogs are cuddly plush toys. None of these people have any idea of behavioural conformation , of the unity of mind and body Nature gives to all creatures, and they are all, in their own way, consumed by vanity.
Experience (of which this author has a lot, alas) teaches that the owners of aggressive breeds can be divided broadly into three categories.
1) We all know there are people who try to conceal their inner feelings of inadequacy by acting extra tough outwardly. Many of them nowadays go buy a “tough” dog. These people, who are struggling with an inferiority complex or an ego problem, then try to force their pit bull/Am Staff (or Presa, or Dogo, etc.) on you because they feel the world owes them recognition. Many of us have experienced this. You try to avoid these people (and their dog) on the street or in a park, but they follow you, determined to inflict the dog upon you. (After all, what’s the use of having this proof of Manliness around if no one will look at it?) They cross the street to follow you so you can’t avoid a confrontation. Their dog runs up to yours in a park, and they refuse to call it when you ask them to. Usually, the dog wouldn’t obey anyway, and they don’t want this embarrassing fact revealed to you. But above all, they enjoy your worry about what their aggressive dog will do. They shout at you to stop acting so weird about their dog. They get angry, and they often get verbally aggressive. It is of extreme importance to these people to force their dog on you, because their need is so great to show the world they know better than everyone else. The dog is the way they can seek arguments and win for a change, since they never succeed in doing this on their own strength. When their dog does attack another dog and try to kill him, they are dumbfounded, because they really are too stupid to understand what these dogs are all about. Their cowardice surfaces – they don’t dare interfere with their attacking dog, and once it’s over, they disappear as quick as they can. Often you never see them in the park again, which is great, except for the fact that someone’s normal, peace seeking dog had to pay with his life first. But some of them don’t disappear for good. Some of them actually enjoy watching their dog’s aggression, and just make sure they’re gone before the police arrive. Tomorrow they’re back again, and blaming you for having called the police. There have been cases in which the owner of the attacked dog was terrorized as punishment for reporting the attack to the police, to the extent that the owner of the horribly wounded dog had to move to a different neighbourhood. Finally, many of the people in this category of aggressive dog lovers enter their dogs in illegal pit fights, a phenomenon which has resurfaced in many of our cities since these dogs became so widespread. Some of these specifically go to places where other dogs come, in the hope that if their aggressive-breed dog practices on your cocker spaniel, he’ll do better in the pit.
2) These are young adolescent male humans, who have reached the brink of adulthood but aren’t there yet. The adolescent male is searching for his identity and trying to get himself a satisfying spot in his peer group. The adolescent doesn’t always have bad intentions, but his brain isn’t ripe yet, and he isn’t yet capable of understanding the consequences of his actions (which is also the reason he has to pay so much more for car insurance than the rest of us). He sees the macho rapper on television, accompanied by the aggressive dog, and he wants one, too. After he’s finished saving up for Nikes, he saves up for a dog. He has no idea what he’s bought once he has the dog, thinking it’s just another consumer item. To him the dog isn’t any different than his other fashion accessories, to him the dog is a thing that will – just like his Portable Play Station – turn on and off if you press the button. The adolescent is, by virtue of his age, a bit rebellious. He is exploring various boundaries, sometimes pushing the envelope in his search for an identity. He just loves to show adults that he won’t do what they ask him to do, but that he makes his own decisions. Of course he won’t leash his dog just because some grown-up makes the request, are you kidding, what a loss of face! He isn’t prepared for it when his dog attacks a person or another dog, and he doesn’t know what to do. His toy is suddenly acting up. So he does nothing, offers no help, doesn’t dare interfere with his dog, and most probably just gets the hell out of Dodge as quick as his little adolescent legs will carry him. Adolescence is an age of natural egotism, and a time when even sympathetic boys often lose their ability to empathize with others for a while. So this kid isn’t capable of imagining the suffering the attacked dog goes through, nor the grief of the dog’s owner. He’s just glad his parents didn’t find out about what happened, otherwise they might take his dog away. “Tomorrow’s another day, hey, don’t be so serious about life, and besides, what could I do about it? The dog did it, not me.”
3) These are the Egotistical Innocents. They are members of animal protection clubs and humane societies. They read lots of sentimental stories about animals, and they watch lots of programs on Discovery Channel. They believe that all animals are sweet-natured cuddly toys. These people’s egocentricity is different from the adolescent’s. These people think they are the measure of all things, and they therefore believe that if a dog is nice to them, well, it means he’s nice, period. How the dog behaves towards others isn’t so important. The Egotistical Innocent lives in a fairy tale, failing to see that a dog is a living being with a will and personality of his own, and that the dog hasn’t been informed of the fairy tale. The Innocent is reinforced in the fairy tale by breeders who agree that the stories about these dogs are all lies, after all, look how sweet he is to the prospective buyer. The Innocent doesn’t understand what “fierce protector of home and hearth, averse to strangers” means, doesn’t know a secret language has been developed since these breeds started causing so much tragedy. She likes the idea of proving to all the world that even these dogs fit her fairy tale, and that they are the poor victims of vicious anti-animal propaganda. The Egotistical Innocent is delighted with her puppy and sees him as a sort of four-legged human baby. She doesn’t see that the pup is playing in an abnormally aggressive way at the age of eight weeks already. She is dumbfounded on the day when her “puppy,” who meantime is actually a young dog, suddenly, out of the blue (because the warning phase has been bred out of these dogs), launches an unbridled attack on another dog and seriously wounds or kills the other dog. She is stricken and disillusioned – not only about the suffering of the attacked dog, but also because her fairy tale has caved in. But not to worry. It only takes her a few days to restore her view of the world. She decides her dog is as sweet as she’d thought after all. After thinking awhile, she realizes the whole thing was the other dog’s fault. After all, the other dog growled at her sweetie, so what else could her sweetie do but defend himself? Sometimes the Egotistical Innocent will cry out that German shepherds bite too, or that even a dachshund can be dangerous under the right circumstances. Unfortunately, there is always a way for people who don’t want to face realities. The great tragedy is that the Egotistical Innocent’s dog will harm or kill many other dogs, because she continues to take him to dog parks, in the belief that it’s up to the other dogs to make sure they don’t get killed.
- by Alexandra Semyonova
Taken from Myth #39 from the original link: http://bit.ly/1WqOd8h
For myths from her book: http://bit.ly/1T8vK0h
(US born Alexandra Semyonova is an internationally acclaimed animal behaviorist educated at John Hopkins University and University College London and author of "The 100 Silliest Things People Say about Their Dogs.” She has worked extensively with dogs and their owners on a daily basis and worked for ten years as welfare inspector for the Dutch SPCA until she was fired in 2010 for telling the truth about pit bull type dogs.)
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Patricia Forbell Exactly
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Chris Blomskog Insightful psychological profiling of dangerous dogs advocates. I have seen all 3 types of these irresponsible people at children's playgrounds in the BC cities of Vancouver, Burnaby, Port Moody, New Westminster, Pitt Meadows, Port Coquitlam and Coquitlam. Denise, Paralegal & Certified dog trainer
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Lori Welbourne My friend runs a kennel/daycare and said she can tell so much by a person's personality by the dogs they choose
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Chris Blomskog Agreed. I love those Fido cell phone commercials they had where the owners even looked like their dogs. Although I did know one Millionaire owner who had 2 huge female Alaskan Malamutes and a small 30 pound Pitbull. However, they didn't choose the Pitbull, it was given to them by their teenage son's girlfriend who would fit profile 2. They didn't trust him at all as he bit the owner on the cheek and the Gardener, house cleaner, renovator. They were kinda stuck with him and kept sending him out with us for socialization but we always kept a strong muzzle on him when he wasn't at camp. He was trained by a Professional trainer who had a TV Show, so I know Pitbulls are dangerous because of their genetics from blood sports. Denise, Certified dog trainer
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Pam Cunard I have been around very, very sweet & gentle Pitts. I think they are beautiful dogs, and still do. I have always wanted one, UNTIL IN WAS ATTACKED 1 YEAR AGO. I now have a new perspective for these dogs.
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M.j. Brandt Some can be very sweet. Some will never attack, bite or maul. But, which ones? The fact that you have a new perspective Pam speaks volumes. It's the ones that have been attacked, or who's dogs have attacked, and still defend the breed that I don't quite understand.
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Lorena McGovern I was almost attacked by my own pit bull once when I was wearing a halloween costume. My other two non-pit bulls just looked curious, but the pit bull was ready to roll. I think maybe they are kinda stupid in addition to being dangerous.
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Jeffrey Sloan They have a very flakey on/off switch.
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Lori Welbourne Pam, did you have a new perspective right away or did it take awhile? I'm so sorry you were attacked frown emoticon
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Teresa C. Tyrrell Exactly true.
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Tanya Edwards-Barnes I love this! I want the book!!
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Jeff Borchardt I don't like this. I don't like this because I've personally met Angela, Ruth, Susan and Renee....I am acquainted with Michelle, Gail, Rachel, and on and on and on.....

These folks do not fit the profile of what "kind" of people own pit bulls. All "kinds" of people own all kinds of breeds. Which brings me to my next point.

Ask me the same question about what "kinds" of people promote pit bulls. What "kinds" of people harass victims despite them knowing full well the daily attacks. What "kinds" of organizations and celebrities that profit from these dogs, etc, and you'll get a different answer from me.

I will not share this meme because I can't stand it when our side talks about what "kinds" of people own pit bulls. We are not psychologists and we shouldn't act like it. The victims and survivors I have become friends with since Dax was killed do not fit this profile. They were simply victims of the pit bull propaganda machine.
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If you took the time to read Lori's latest rant about pit bull owners it seems she has psychological experience and/or background as she speaks to "types" of people that own pit bulls etc.

Even Jeff Borchardt disagrees with Lori's conclusions and claims regarding owners and refuses to support and/or promote the meme but I wouldn't read too much into that though as Jeff's probably worried about Lori stealing his limelight. 

I'm guessing that the words on the meme attributed to Alexandra Semyonova are actually Lori Welbourne's words and I'd put money on the fact that Alexandra has no knowledge of the meme or the words attributed to her and will probably not promote it either.

Lori Welbourne is a pit bull hater not a public safety advocate and she's a second rate journo/reporter too.

more to come.....




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